De-Stressing with A Suction Vibrator

About a year ago, I decided to become celibate, meaning a firm decision to not have sex unless in a relationship. This decision sprung from being tired of casual relationships that couldn’t seem to go further into committed relationships.
When I was still having sex, I found that whoever I was seeing casually hadn’t made it a priority to help me reach an orgasm. I grew dissatisfied and often had to help myself climax. This dynamic made me feel like there was a lack of intimacy despite doing the actual physical act of sex. I realised I was only satisfied with a closer connection found in committed relationships and I was settling for less having casual sex

The first few months of celibacy feels like you’re breaking a habit. Then, as the first year passes it becomes easier to resist casual sex. I was naturally taking care of myself sexually when needed but I hadn’t thought of using a vibrator.
When I was gifted a vibrator from a girlfriend, it wasn’t something I felt an urge to use all the time but one thing that helped was being a quick de-stressor when I had trouble sleeping or was dealing with troubling thoughts keeping me awake. It came in handy helping me fall asleep fast and was a completely different sensation that was positively distracting.
The vibrator I was given was purely for clitoral stimulation and the design was sleek and subtle. I’ve never really been a fan of penetrative vibrators as they look overwhelmingly phallic.
Having a vibrator has become more of a quick fix when needed, super efficient and anxiety relieving.

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